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<title>A Lesson Finally Learned</title>
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<author>Purba</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Once upon a time people bought gadgets that lasted them a lifetime, well almost. Refrigerators, television sets, we almost grew up with them.&amp;nbsp; They did retire, hurt, once in a while but after a brief hospitalisation would resume duty without a murmur of protest.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Our first family car was a second hand, sky blue, Premier Padmini. It was tantrumy, would start at will and stop without warning causing distress, embarrassment and traffic jams. We had many a good Samaritan coming to our rescue, helping us out of sticky situations. Those days Delhi still had some nice people. When we finally sold it off, my Maa actually mourned for it. &amp;nbsp;She loves mourning, animate inanimate notwithstanding. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Our first colour television, a Sony, lasted almost 25 years. Its images had become blurry, the controls cranky, but my parents refused to let go of it. They now have a 53 inch monster which conks off with alarming regularity.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now that I have a household of my own to run, the gadgets have multiplied, look fancier, have mind boggling functions and come in daring colours.&amp;nbsp; I can remove lint in a jiffy, colour my whites a ghastly orange in the washing machine and place my cup of tea on the warmer lest it get cold. &amp;nbsp;I get cooled, warmed, entertained at the click of a button.&amp;nbsp; But the life time bond is a thing of the past. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Ray household does not acquire gadgets in haste. We follow a specific order. It starts with a thought. Yes, we need to upgrade our music system. Once the thought has germinated we nurture it. Sometimes we mull over it for over a year. The husband researches, compares and researches some more.&amp;nbsp; We finally settle down for a state of the art music system. But the pleasure doesn&amp;rsquo;t even last a season. Within months a sleeker model with never-before-seen features makes a glitzy splash in the market, making our existing one look redundant. We start pondering again. &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;God forbid if any appliance conks off. I have been residing in Gurgaon for the last six years. Many errant appliances later, I can say with conviction that the millennium city has by far the worst technicians this side of the equator. But, the eternal optimist I am, I seldom learn from my past mistakes. I am always in the fond hope of an experience that will not be traumatic and have me close to a nervous breakdown. Every time it is the same sob story: a breakdown, frantic calls to the service centre, the reassurance that things will be taken care of in a jiffy (I wish they wouldn&amp;rsquo;t say that). It takes half a dozen trips by the technician, two dozen calls in varying decibel levels, threats, arguments, to finally get things back on track. By the end of it I have a hoarse throat and Rathore, Salim and Pandey jee in my speed dial list. Each ordeal later I sit and wonder, wouldn&amp;rsquo;t things have been much simpler if we had just dumped the damn thing and bought a newer model!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ironically life is not meant to be simple, it gets insipid otherwise. We thrive on ordeals and challenges, we crib and we cope. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The spice came from unexpected quarters this time. My otherwise well behaved washing machine conked off after managing eight years of glitch free service. One freezing wintry morning, it let out a series of alarms and the heating function stopped working. Since it didn&amp;rsquo;t appear to be a major fault I decided to call the service centre and made the stupidest mistake of my life. &amp;nbsp;To be fair the service engineer arrived promptly for diagnosing the problem. &lt;i&gt;The circuit board needs to be replaced&lt;/i&gt; he announced. &lt;i&gt;It will be fixed in an hour or two&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Seven hours and a lot of chaos later it was discovered that the &lt;i&gt;thermostat&lt;/i&gt; needed to be changed as well. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you need something desperately it is always located in a far off city. This time it was Pondicherry. The thermostat finally did arrive after a week of reminders. Thank God, I can finally warm wash my laundry again, I mused. Famous last thoughts.&amp;nbsp; Like &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.skole-forum.dk/bruceand.htm&quot;&gt;King Bruce&lt;/a&gt; the technician kept trying to fix the apparently minor problem, and I kept rekindling my hopes. I would switch on the machine, a few minutes later the circuit board would get all hot and sultry and go up in smoke. My teeth had become blunt with all that gritting, my hair sparse from all that pulling.&amp;nbsp; A second opinion was sought. &amp;nbsp;It was discovered that we now needed a new &lt;i&gt;thermistor&lt;/i&gt; as well. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A lot of heartburn and a few thousand rupees later our washing machine is finally working. It has become noisy, the heating element is temperamental. And here I am pondering yet again, would it not had been simpler had we just dumped the damn thing! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Last week our geyser started leaking again. I did not call the service centre, instead the husband dismantled it and we sold it to our scrap dealer for a princely amount of Rs 60. We have finally learned our lesson.&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/18/081055.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/18/081055.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<author>Halima Khan</author><description>&lt;p&gt;Nothing in life comes without a price attached to it not even life itself. Does anyone beg to differ?  Then I suggest you need to go check with your parents how much giving you life cost them.  However, I am doubtful if you are interested in that so here are some tags, which might be more relevant to your existence:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first in this category has to be phone connections, from luxury, they have become a much desired and sought out need.  In the last few years, we have become lucky with choices; from pink and blue Telenor tawk shawk to red Jazz to bright orange and green Ufone there is also the blue and white Zong. The telecommunication has become so increasingly aggressive recently that other than pricing strategy they have to be very creative with marketing too.  Well no one is complaining about that for sure; after all, it is a delight to get to see &amp;lsquo;bootilicious&amp;rsquo; models dancing to irritatingly catchy tunes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sim cards are widely available now and at affordable rates too. It does not come as a surprise that everyone has to have two or even three nowadays, especially with dual sim phone sets gaining popularity. Nonetheless, it is major good news that governments finally realized its responsibility and the NIC copy as a requirement to issue sims is being strictly followed. The standard sim rate has been 500 with either free credit or talk time or a limited number of sms or all three in some cases. The summers wavered the sim prices for instance Warid sims are available at Rs.150 only. Ufone is giving three sim options, two are priced at Rs.130 only, and one costs Rs.150 only.  Zong is the only phone company offering a phone set and a sim combo deal under Rs.2000 only.  However, no need to rush this offer is valid for limited period which doesn&amp;rsquo;t end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prepaid service gives us ample choice in selecting the billing system that suits our calling requirements.  There is the one-second billing, the thirty seconds billing, and the regular one-minute billing.  In addition, there is also per hour billing packages with all services charging approximately Rs. 5 per hour.  However, most of these low call rates apply to the same network calls.  This trend has changed recently with phone services becoming more consumers&amp;rsquo; friendly than ever. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Phone is not just a communication gadget anymore it is a whole entertainment parcel.  Voice quality and connectivity is very important for cellular service providers, but to keep pace in this cutthroat competition value added services are of keen significance as well.  Mobile TV, radio, web browsing, chatting, song dedication, quizzes, games, competitions, lucky draws and so on and so forth.  Viola, your very own Pandora box!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be it lovers sighing their nights away or friends trying to catch up on lost time or socialites sniffing for the up and happening or employees trying to do their job cellular services have definitely proved bigger blessing than nuisance.  Moreover, it is a relief to see this blessing becoming progressively more affordable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the end of the day it hardly matters what code proceeds your number till you have a mobile set in your hand to flash in people&amp;rsquo;s faces especially if you have a pair of car keys dangling in your other hand.  Yes the ultimate dream that every prestigious member of ever generation thinks obligatory to pursue, and thank God, for economies of scale that it is not a too far off possibility. There is no limit to how much you can spend on shoes and bags, agreed?  Unanimously, of course!  Conversely, I insist there is no limit to how extravagant you can get with your car too.  Sky is the limit with how luxurious technology can make your four-wheelers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Honda is a beauty but undisputedly it is the most unaffordable beauty in the market especially for just starting-off youngsters.  The Accord 2.4 I-VTEC is quoted at Rs. 3,599,000.00; there is no way in heaven or hell that I am adding only to that figure.  That one is for recommending to your daddy especially if he can afford the ever-rising petrol prices.  If you plan to pursue this extravaganza, you had better hurry since &amp;lsquo;the unit price is subject to change without notice &amp;amp; at the discretion of Honda Atlas Cars (Pakistan) Limited.&amp;rsquo; Though I am sure the helpful salesperson will remind you that the price prevailing at the time delivery of the vehicle will be charged. The luckiest you can get at Honda showroom is at Rs. 985,000.00 and you just bought yourself a City (manual transmission).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The new Corolla that hit the market just this year has four models including Altis1.8 VVTI (AT) and 2OD Saloon diesels, all four supporting sunroof, and they fall between Rs. 1,600,000 and Rs. 1,800,000.  Toyota has fairer economical cars to its credit as well; there is Cuore available between Rs. 400,000 and Rs. 500,000 only depending on which color and model you pick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Suzuki is not far behind in sales and car quality.  There is the good old Mehran, even though it&amp;rsquo;s a little old fashioned it&amp;rsquo;s as reliable as ever.  Then there is also the Cultus, which goes slightly higher but is in keeping with evolving trends.  It costs around Rs. 700,000 only.  Alto is available at an affordable Rs. 500,000 approximately.  Even the slightly luxurious Liana is priced averagely at Rs. 900,000 only.  The sporty jeep is the Suzuki car to cross the Rs. 1, 000,000 mark and that too only slightly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most banks offer leasing opportunity nowadays at fairly easier terms, if none of the above fit your budget.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whichever models of whichever brand you end up buying its essential to remember, that with great power of that key comes great responsibility.  Being careful on the road is part of your civic sense just as carefully taking care of your car&amp;rsquo;s maintenance is. This is not just for your safety but also for everyone else&amp;rsquo;s.  Like every other product, the handbook that comes with it is important.  Go through the warranty manual and fully understand your consumer rights to avail the after sale services to your best advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh a point of information please morally all cars should come without horns.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well by now, we have painted the picture with the mobile and a set of car keys but &amp;nbsp; it&amp;rsquo;s not complete yet now is it?  To be perfectly equipped for survival in this current age plastic money has become an important ingredient, cannot stress the importance enough so I will move on to what alternatives are available in the &amp;lsquo;sabzi mandi&amp;rsquo;.  International banks have long realized how fruitful Pakistan is as a potentially very ripe sales base.  The security threats are nothing compared to how rewarding the gullibility of people here can be.  No offence in being an easy prey is there. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ABN now known as the Royal Bank of Scotland has been in the market for quite some time now.  They are the only ones co branding their credit cards.  There is the collaboration with Air blue which gets you free air travel when you mange to reach required reward points.  Then there are also Ufone benefits of free talk time and line rent.  HSBC has the standard silver, gold, and platinum credit cards.  However the major incentive that using their card has is the more you use it in your shopping, traveling etc the more the bank saves for your child&amp;rsquo;s education.  That is definitely a tempting reward point system.  MCB bends more towards the debit card options so you get to spend only what you have.  Hardly any fun eh!  HBL follows the market trend with the green card and the gold card.  The credit card acquiring process has no doubt simplified a great deal and the terms are more convenient with greater stress on wider opportunities for its users.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most banks share the benefits they offer; also, there are more or less standard features. Even the credit card membership fees are as good as same with the option being Rs.2000/- and Rs.4000/-.  However, the Platinum Card fee ranges from Rs. 5000/- to Rs.15, 000/- depending on what limit the bank has assigned you.  The fringe benefits on credit cards are more or less regular as well with insurance given especially on travel and with discounts offered with redemption partners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With wants and needs switching sides, fast price tags have taken a relative connotation; only you can decide what your budget accommodates.  Nevertheless, there is definitely something for everyone now.  Happy affording!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/18/080412.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/18/080412.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>Alone, White, and Female in India</title>
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<author>Deepa Krishnan</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;On a travel forum recently, a young Polish woman asked: &lt;i&gt;&amp;quot;I am planning to go to India and would be grateful if you could tell me whether it is safe for me to go there alone. If someone has any experience in travelling on his/her own, please post your comments&amp;quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lots of people offered her advice; most of which centered around dressing modestly (preferably in a salwar kameez!), not getting too familiar with strangers, avoiding isolated areas and dark alleys, and so on. Among the many people who offered advice, there was one gentleman who suggested she carry pepper-spray. This led to a protest by some others - What?? Pepper spray!!?? Why are you scaring tourists away from India??&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Co-incidentally, I had just been reading a city magazine, a &amp;#39;Women&amp;#39;s Special&amp;#39;, with a whole page devoted to staying safe in cities - and among the five things they listed was pepper spray!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4040/4440105439_90d71cecfd.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;Tips for women&amp;#39;s safety in a city magazine - India&quot; title=&quot;Tips for women&amp;#39;s safety in a city magazine - India&quot; width=&quot;344&quot; height=&quot;449&quot; align=&quot;middle&quot; /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what&amp;#39;s the right advice for this lady? Should she stick to big cities? Are they safer, or are they more dangerous than smaller towns? Are some states safer than others? As I heard various points of view, I felt obliged to conclude that there is no single truth when it comes to female safety in India.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But that doesn&amp;#39;t mean there are no conclusions to be drawn! I travel alone, frequently, to different parts of the country, and from my own interactions with men, I find that some parts of the country are disconcertingly hostile to women and disparaging of their bodies, whereas other places are a delight.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I was in Orissa recently, and I have to say I did not encounter one single lecherous man; it was a fantastic experience. I have spent two years in Calcutta, again, without so much as a single nasty incident in spite of late nights and odd hours. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I would rank Uttar Pradesh, Haryana, Rajasthan and Delhi among my list of difficult places for solo women travellers. (I have not been to Bihar, but I confess I have no great expectations from the state that produced Laloo Prasad Yadav). Other than Orissa and Bengal, I would rank Kerala among my nicest travel experiences, followed by Tamil Nadu, Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka, Maharashtra and Goa (in no particular order). I have no experience of the north-eastern states.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course, this is all based on personal and anecdotal stuff, and is therefore open to bias, but I suspect many Indian women would agree with me. If you don&amp;#39;t agree, that&amp;#39;s fine too. There is no necessity for consensus here. Irrespective of which state is better and which is worse, what I&amp;#39;m trying to say is that there seem to be some regional trends in the behaviour of men towards women. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I am puzzled by these differences. Surely we are all not that different from each other? Maybe it&amp;rsquo;s just that places which are more hidebound and stuck in the dark ages are more difficult for women? With a social structure that does not value women, it is that much more difficult to get the basic respect you deserve. But Tamil Nadu with its high female foeticide doesn&amp;#39;t value women either...so it&amp;#39;s hard to explain why I feel safer in Chennai than in Delhi. Again, this is also a sweeping generalisation. Some parts of Delhi (and I am writing this sitting in Delhi) are extremely safe and very nice to be, and some very nice guys I know are from Delhi. But I don&amp;#39;t feel the same &amp;quot;body freedom&amp;quot; in the crowded lanes of Chandni Chowk as I do in the equally crowded Pondy Bazaar or Bhuleshwar or Gariahaat markets. Why? I wish I knew. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sigh - so - going back to the young Polish woman - while there is no single truth about the Indian men she will encounter, the fact remains that she is likely to go through some not-so-pleasant experiences if she is travelling solo. Let&amp;#39;s face it, this is a difficult country for single white women to travel. The average Indian man assumes that white women are alley cats and are potentially available - why else would they flaunt their bodies in public places, right? To add to this is the depressingly common lesson which most young men receive at the hands of their older friends - that&amp;#39;s it&amp;#39;s perfectly alright to ogle and whistle and grope and treat women  badly. Indeed, it is very *masculine* to do so, as Hindi movies so brilliantly illustrate. It&amp;#39;s not just white women who get the lecherous idiocy - the same disgusting treatment is accorded to very modestly dressed local women as well. It&amp;#39;s a grim story, and one that always makes me want to decimate the entire male race :) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To the lady who asked the original question, I say, pack that pepper spray, girl! You may not need it, but you&amp;#39;ll feel better with it in your purse. &lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/17/105323.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/17/105323.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<author>Vidhya</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4016/4418465157_9525eaccc0.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There are moments as these when taking a photograph is just a you-get-it-or-you-lose-it affair. Especially when the subject of your photo is a bird, and all the more when you try to silhouette the bird while it flew at an angle just beside the setting sun.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I spent the Christmas holidays on the West coast. The last leg of my vacation was a scenic drive through the CA-1 highway from Los Angeles to San Diego. The route ran about 20 meters from the ocean on one side and a rising cliff on the other, until it merged into the mainland at Dana Point.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;After stopping for a coffee at the Dana Point harbor, the drive resumed through the I-5 highway, trying to reach Encinitas, 30 miles before San Diego, before sunset. I was looking forward to some sunset photography at Swamy&#039;s beach, at the small quaint seaside village of Encinitas.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sunrise and sunset are probably the favorite times of the day for any photographer. With the sun down on the horizon, its distinct colors and reflections on the earth and water provide abundant scope for creative ways of photographing regular subjects. Silhouettes being one of them. Forming  an absolute silhouette of the subject, with the glowing sun in the background with other appropriate colors and reflections of the setting sun and its innumerable variations is always one of my personal favorites.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As the drive went over I-5, flanked by gorgeous valleys and high rise cliffs on either side, we halted at the Vista Point - about 50 miles from Encinitas, and the sun beginning its dip down the horizon. The view from the Vista Point was breathtaking - the magnificent Pacific stretching like only it would, with an aerial view of mainland on one side and Mexico on the other direction; not to forget the setting sun.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;During sunrise and sunset, it&#039;s important to keep the focus just beside the sun and also not miss the subject, lest you end up with a photo that is completely dark. Unlike other times when I tend to experiment with exposures and apertures, attempting to silhouette a flying bird is just a matter of you get it right the first time, or you keep waiting until another one flies past the sun.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;After missing a few birds that either missed the sun or missed the camera, I managed to catch one that hovered just over the circumference of the sun.&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/09/075826.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/09/075826.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<author>Pratyush Khaitan</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://tinypic.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://i46.tinypic.com/ndn1v8.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;Image and video hosting by TinyPic&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am in Mumbai for a business trip and though I am a frequent visitor, I notice a change. It is a religious exuberance by a few like I have never seen before. There are saffrons and symbolisms of religion every where to be seen. It is a perfect setting for me to be staying in a hotel opposite recently renamed Chatrapati Shivaji Terminus from the old Grand name VT or Victoria Terminus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At first, I feel alarmed. Why are these people showing off their religions so vibrantly, so intrudingly as a procession stops the traffic on my way to the hotel from the city. I am agitated, alarmed at the situation we face ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then, when I think over it, I find that this really is the core of India. In India, every one has a right to express himself or herself, whether right or wrong and no one can stop you from doing that. That&amp;#39;s what freedom is. That&amp;#39;s what democracy is. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is the same democracy which allowed Bapu to fast and churn a nation and more. It is the same fast which allows a Shiv Sanik to talk about partitioning Mumbai from India. In India, they can both co-exist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;India is a great, great nation and more strength will come to it as time goes on because of India&amp;#39;s strength of absorbing the rebellious in the liberal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS - This is not a movie post but if you get a chance, watch &lt;i&gt;Mumbai Meri Jaan&lt;/i&gt; which captures the spirit of Mumbai and essentially India very aptly.&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/04/225201.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/04/225201.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>Spring-ing a Surprise</title>
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<author>Purba</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Spring arrived without notice, sans any fanfare. Just a week back I was cosily wrapped in a shawl enjoying a night out with friends. It is another matter that I was the only one in anything remotely woollen. Delhi fashionistas are content shivering in their chiffons. And now here I am sweating profusely, complaining loudly to whoever is willing to listen as to how hot it has become. Gosh! I can&amp;rsquo;t even bear to look at my full sleeved tees. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A few days back, I went to our local shopping centre, &amp;ldquo;The Galleria&amp;rdquo;. The atmosphere was festive, with Holi just round the corner. I spotted quite a few people strolling around in their shorts and tees. My corduroys felt rather overdressed. &amp;ldquo;Why? It&amp;rsquo;s only February&amp;rdquo; I mused aloud to the husband.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course by now I was feeling mildly disturbed, I wanted to wear my shorts and tees too, weather be damned. So what do I do? I spent the entire weekend (two whole days to be precise) trying to unpack my summer wardrobe. Actually it&amp;rsquo;s a pretty complicated procedure. When you are living in a high rise apartment, space is the first casualty. My parents live in this huge three-storied bungalow and there are dedicated rooms and cupboards to store clothes that haven&amp;rsquo;t been worn the last twenty years. This is not an attempt to be funny, for a change I am dead serious. The kilometre long loft is used to store Diwali gifts accumulated over the last decade or more. Now that I have my own nest, I no longer have this privilege and my wardrobe has to be split according to seasons.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To unpack, one has to pack away stuff just to create space. And when you put away stuff, you can&amp;rsquo;t help but wonder at the sheer volume of apparel you have managed to accumulate in just one season. How the hell did I manage 4 pullovers in rust, even though it&amp;rsquo;s my favourite colour? Fine, aubergine (the colour, not the veggie) is hot this season, but did I really need that wrap, boots, dress and a bolero jacket in that colour? Actually I blame Gurgaon, the mall capital and my credit cards. The millennium city unleashes the shopaholic in you. The glittering stores with their tantalizing displays beckon at you, you walk in hypnotized, feel the textures, feast your eyes on the new collection, spot a pair of Jodhpurs in your favourite colour, try it on, it fits you like a dream. Ah, Nirvana! I loathe need-based shopping, it seems so mundane. For me it&amp;rsquo;s about surrendering to my impulses. Sauntering into a mall, inhaling the fresh aroma of coffee, sniffing at tantalizing jars and tubes with exotic ingredients at a Body Shop store, gently filling that enduring little basket with knick knacks and opening my eyes wide in horror when the cashier finally presents the bill to me. For such indulgences, thank god there&amp;rsquo;s always MasterCard.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Confronted with a pile from my latest indiscretions, I make yet another &amp;ldquo;no more shopping, I have enough&amp;rdquo; resolution. Every year I follow this ritual. Silently curse myself, wonder how I can create space for my ever expanding eclectic wardrobe. I weed out stuff and look for unsuspecting individuals I can pass on to - usually my maids. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So it&amp;rsquo;s that time of the year again, I am atop the ladder reaching out for the loft making careful pyramids of attires from a season gone by. I lug the 100 kilo (at least it felt that heavy) mattress off my bed and stuff some more woollies in my divan. But the incorrigible me is already plotting and planning my next conquest in the shopping precincts. &lt;i&gt;I could definitely do with a few more skirts this season and I need a pair of tracks my dance classes, should I make a quick trip to Mango to check out their spring summer collection&lt;/i&gt;? Thank god my cramped closets can&amp;rsquo;t hear me think or else they would have collapsed in frustration by now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/04/083337.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/04/083337.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<author>Halima Khan</author><description>&lt;p&gt;While I rant to prove how passionately Lahori believe in preserving their taste buds it will be unfair of me to neglect the cultural activity and the entertainment this city is bursting with. But then of course no denying that it all does end up on food! The wedding season which seems to be in season all year round but reaches the climax around November and December and lasts till February? Wedding can be considered the most elaborate occasion on the family event calendar with &#039;dholkis&#039; &#039;mayo&#039; &#039;mehndi&#039; etc spanning over months before the eventual day. Fun and frivolities mark the celebration all through. The preparations involve shopping and the dowry for the bride, which is a traditional gift of clothes, furniture etc to the newly weds. The exquisiteness of the lavish food is the real delight of this whole affair. &lt;br/&gt;
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To add to this traditional and religious celebration of matrimony Lahore hosts people from worldwide to welcome spring annually and to boost its festivity of Basant. Kite-flying and dance and music mark the occasion, giving people an opportunity of entertainment. These opportunities of entertainment are definitely not rare in Lahore. Independence Day in August shows the same fervor and free spirit that Punjabis boost of. &lt;br/&gt;
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However every year what really puts Lahore on the international platform is the World Performing Arts Festival; where the only language that binds everyone is art. To add to this ritual of promoting peace and inter-cultural exchange another event that is gaining momentum is the Annual Marathon. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;While there is no dearth of opportunities to kick off your boots and enjoy good food and have good fun, Lahore also offers the best shopping experience. So if you decide to keep your boots on and want to gear up for an unforgettable spree that&#039;s exactly what this city has in store for you. International brands and local chains to retail outlets; Liberty, Anarkali, Shahlmee, there&#039;s everything of every sort! Hafeez Center is the biggest computer market, and the prices you&#039;ll find here can&#039;t get better. &lt;br/&gt;
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As the population in Lahore has increased from estimated 6 million to estimated 10 million the city has expanded and the suburban population is constantly moving outwards. The previous residential areas are being turned into commercial centers. All this development has resulted in development of the upbeat Liberty Market, MM Alam Road, Jail Road with the finest office buildings and the Main Boulevard with the largest shopping centers. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If I could sum up Lahore I&#039;ll do it like everyone else does - this city doesn&#039;t sleep. Even late at night or even earliest in the morning there is sense of continuous on-going activity. It makes you feel alive, the raw energy that runs in its streets and boulevards. The tradition and culture so rich that it has even seeped into the westernization attempts; do don&#039;t worry if the Big Mac here tastes a wee bit different. Lahore may have spiced it up a little!!&lt;br/&gt;
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<author>Halima Khan</author><description>&lt;p&gt;Sights and sounds. Distinctive! Setting one piece of land apart from one another; thus the world has it all a Lahore, a London, an Amsterdam too. What all these cities share is the keen-ness to preserve culture most predictably. But then this is where this masterpiece of a city, Lahore really stands out. Here we emphasize on preserving our taste buds; the real essence of survival. Or so they are considered here. So if live to eat is your business don&#039;t miss out on why &#039;Lahore Lahore hai!&#039; (Lahore is Lahore.)&lt;br/&gt;
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Gawalmandi and Anarkali, part of the older city, and the real hub of passionate eaters and other activity too of course. But since the government has renovated these places as food streets, the dhabas and restaurants our parents so fondly referred to have us hooked to the exquisite &#039;desi&#039; cuisine too. These places have undergone major restoration work which hasn&#039;t just made food more accessible but has made it possible to enjoy tradition at its best in the magnanimity of &#039;havilis&#039; as well. &lt;br/&gt;
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Data Darbar, a spiritual sanctity and a recluse for the lost souls and the restless is the highlight of the day for many for its &#039;langar&#039;; after all there is always enough food for everyone there! With &#039;qawalis&#039; ringing out of it all the time it builds up the atmosphere for a breath-taking experience at &#039;Coocoo&#039;s Den&#039;, located just behind Badshahi Mosque near the Darbar. The Den is a 300 year old &#039;kothi&#039; which gives a beautiful view of the city from its sitting area, which is mostly located in the outdoors. &lt;br/&gt;
Another landmark which is a treat to the creative instincts is the Pak Tea House in Anarkali; it is famed as a &#039; long favored haunt of intellectuals and artists.&#039; &lt;br/&gt;
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Talking about doing justice to your creative instincts Lahore with its faded elegance of wide variety of Islamic and British architecture sets the stage perfectly with its contrast and surprise. Lahore is the second largest city of Pakistan, with fragrance of gardens spread around and the aroma of cultural heritage echoing in the Old Walled City. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Shalimar means the purest of human pleasure; during Shah Jahan&#039;s reign this romantic Shalimar Garden was built with its triple-terraces, marble pavilions, ornamental pools, water falls and fountains. Purity indeed!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;World&#039;s largest existing historical mosque is also hosted by this city of old tales. Blend of white marble and red stone and beautifully engraved Quranic verses Badshahi Mosque stands tall as a symbol of Mughal religious zeal. The neighboring Lahore Fort was founded way back in the B.C era. However it got its present face by the infamous architects aka Mughals. The Sheesh Mahal (The Palace of Mirrors), Moti Masjid (Pearl Mosque), Diwan-e-Aam (Court for the Commons), Hathi Per (Elephant Steps are masterpieces in themselves and best preserved too. The Fort also has a museum covering the Mughal and Sikh periods. &lt;br/&gt;
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The Lahore Museum established during British Raj displays the evolution of culture in this region with rare and best collection of the Buddhist art from the Gandhara Period, Islamic artifacts, Calligraphy, Old Manuscripts, Arms, Costumes and Jewelry.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Lahore seems to have always favored tales of lost love and has preserved legends in its bazaars and &#039;galis&#039; and gardens and tombs too. &#039;Jahangir ka maqbara&#039;, where lies the most romantic soul of the Mughal era, and ironically his final resting place is still an alcove for the romantic souls of today. Like Jehangir there is a beautifully constructed tomb of his beautiful and much doted wife Noor-Jehan.&lt;br/&gt;
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The history of the Old City of Lahore is a thriving one, accessible by 12 gates it&#039;s a multiple bazaar and the hub of oriental culture with its distinctive flair and aroma. &lt;br/&gt;
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This city of extreme weather conditions shows great traces of westernization now, to cater to the more modern needs of the young generation. MM Alam Road is the result of the great demand of restaurants and cafes. From KFC to Pizza Hut and Subway almost all international food chains have their outlets in Lahore. Another upcoming trend that has hit this city is the &#039;sheesha&#039;; Iranian face of our local huqa. It is all the rage amidst teenagers! While there are no bars as such, smoky cafes and hangouts don&#039;t make their absence felt. &lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/03/081309.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/03/081309.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>The Filth That We Are Comfortable With</title>
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<author>Priyank Chandra</author><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There is beauty in all things. What could be filth and garbage to me could be beautiful to others. I concede this point and therefore I try my best to not judge the world. So without delay, I present to you two photographs I took this morning.&lt;hr /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo200/icarus_c/image1.jpg&quot; border=&quot;1&quot; alt=&quot;The Muck On The Lake&quot; title=&quot;The Muck On The Lake&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;256&quot; align=&quot;middle&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo200/icarus_c/image2.jpg&quot; border=&quot;1&quot; alt=&quot;The Cups Runneth Over&quot; title=&quot;The Cups Runneth Over&quot; width=&quot;256&quot; height=&quot;320&quot; align=&quot;middle&quot; /&gt;&lt;hr /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The readers are now invited to share their analysis of the aesthetic beauty inherent in these photographs. And do not pretend that you fail to see it. Why else would this be allowed to exist in the midst of one of the most active IT hubs of Bangalore. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A litte background about these photographs. These were taken right next to Bagmane Tech Park, C V Raman Nagar, Bangalore. The lake is adjacent to the tech park and used to be beautiful a long time ago. This tech park is &amp;quot;an eco-friendly tech park&amp;quot;. How these mammoth air conditioned buildings, bereft of vegetation, generating massive amounts of wastes and energy needs are eco-friendly is beyond me but that point is irrelevant at the moment. I want to direct the attention of the reader to the plastic that decorates the lake. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This tech park houses some of the biggest companies in the world - HP, Oracle, Samsung and a lot more. So the people working here are extremely well-educated folks - the engineers and the MBAs. Most drive their air-conditioned cars to the offices and then cocoon themselves in the air-conditioned sanitized worlds of cubicles and work. At regular intervals they take breaks to litter the outside world with tea-cups and cigarette buds, before returning to the cocoons of bliss and indifference. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I work in this tech park. I am a part of the indifference. I see the massive amounts of time and resources invested by every company to keep the workplace hygienic. Corporate responsibility dictates that the companies publicly invest money in a lot of noble causes. And yet the surroundings have remained this dirty for many years now. The foreign clients arrive in tinted cars and leave in them, and the employees walk past the garbage without any notice. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is why I claim that what I see every morning as filth and garbage &lt;b&gt;MUST&lt;/b&gt; be beautiful. How else could we the educated and well-off people bear to be pass by it everyday and not feel a sense of repulsion. And kudos to the corporations in playing their part in the indifference that defines the new Bangalore.&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/03/024327.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/03/024327.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>Fiction: Bitter Coffee</title>
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<author>IdeaSmith</author><description>&lt;p&gt;The Corner Coffeeshop was open for business but its traffic was at a lull. It was too early in the evening for the post-work crowd, too late for the students and AC-enjoying unemployed to be hanging around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Outside, the sun had gone down but that curious combination of atmospheric density and light&amp;#39;s acrobatic bending made it seem like daylight was still around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Such were his thoughts, where another person would have called it &lt;i&gt;twilight&lt;/i&gt;. He grimly thought to himself that she would have referred to Van Gogh&amp;#39;s &amp;#39;Starry Nights&amp;#39; while all along he&amp;#39;d be thinking of the diagrams in the physics textbooks about light refraction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was already seated on the bar-stool near the window, his bag on the seat next to his, to save it for her. In front of him was a cappuccino. With deliberate precision, he emptied two sachets of sugar into the cup and tossed the empty packets into the dustbin near the end of the table. She preferred espresso shots but he couldn&amp;#39;t stand their acrid taste. But he didn&amp;#39;t want another lecture on calorie count either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Outside, the object of his ruminations had just neared the door and was standing but not entering. Then she squared her shoulders, took a deep breath and walked in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He saw her from the corner of his eye and put down his coffee mid-sip to receive her kiss. To his surprise, she turned, picked his bag off the seat and sat down with it in her lap. A second later, she seemed to have second thoughts and put it on the table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then she turned and said in a rush.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;I need to tell you something and I need you to not interrupt. I&amp;rsquo;m going back to Delhi tomorrow.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;But&amp;hellip;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She held up her hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t say anything. I&amp;rsquo;m going. The ticket is booked. And it&amp;rsquo;s one-way.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her face was set in an immovable mask. She looked beautiful. But unrecognizable. Like a cold, marble statue that was displayed in someone else&amp;#39;s house.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;When you called me here for coffee, I thought you were trying to rekindle the romance in our relationship.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her stiff expression didn&amp;rsquo;t change. She hadn&amp;rsquo;t even put her bag on the table. He tried again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;I know we&amp;rsquo;ve been arguing. But we&amp;rsquo;ve been through worse stuff. It&amp;rsquo;s&amp;hellip;what are we doing?&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wavered and in a slightly watery voice said,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re having coffee. I&amp;rsquo;m leaving.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Come on, you don&amp;rsquo;t have to do this. Let&amp;rsquo;s talk about this.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Let&amp;#39;s not.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she said. And those were her last words to him. He would think about that often. For such a talkative person, she was leaving him with so little. As if she didn&amp;#39;t want to spend another precious minute or word on him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Across the street, she plugged her earphones into her ears and switched on the iPod. It wasn&amp;#39;t serendipitous, the song that came up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Why she had to go, I don&amp;#39;t know, she wouldn&amp;#39;t say&lt;br /&gt;I said something wrong, I long for yesterday&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday, love was such an easy game to play.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She&amp;#39;d been listening to the Beatles all evening on her way to the coffeeshop. It helped her relax and focus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He hadn&amp;#39;t said anything wrong. How do you tell someone that they had never said anything right in the first place? How do you explain that after three years? And how do you erase the memory of your own wrong choices?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don&amp;#39;t. You just stop and turn away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She turned the corner and stopped under the street lamp. She asked herself, &lt;i&gt;shall I reconsider?&lt;/i&gt; and turned to look in the direction of the coffeeshop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was dark now and the bright lights of The Corner Coffeeshop were attracting their clientele in now. She couldn&amp;#39;t see him anymore, there were too many people around. Night had fallen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Should I?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in the same breath, the thought crystallized into realisation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Let me not.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She took a deep breath and walked away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coffee was never going to be anything but bitter after this.&lt;a href=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/02/062251.php&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http://desicritics.org/2010/03/02/062251.php&quot; height=&quot;61&quot; width=&quot;51&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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