Turkish Writer, Selin Tamtekin, Faces Criticism For Writing Diplomat's Daughter
Deepti Lamba
Selin Tamtekin, the daughter of a Turkish consular had to go into hiding for three weeks when her novel Diplomat's Daughter shocked Turkey with its explicit story line.
The Turkish Diplomat's Daughter is a racy roman à clef, chronicling sexual affairs with a Bangladeshi landlord, a sailor and a Freddie Mercury-obsessed fantasist.When Turkish newspapers got hold of the book, Tamtekin admitted her identity (it is written under the pseudonym Deniz Goran) and was so roundly pilloried that worried friends dubbed her "the female Salman Rushdie". Splashed on the front pages of at least four national newspapers, she was derided as a "high-class Mayfair prostitute" who was writing about her own thinly veiled sexual experiences. The media were astonished that not only a Turkish woman but one from the highest echelons of society had written so frankly about her sexuality.
Nothing surprising there. When Arundhati Roy's book - God Of Small Things came out, lots of eyebrows rose not only in the literary world but also amongst the so called liberal middle class. Arundhati's book was an amalgamation of gritty vulgarity and earthy writing. A book so hard to digest that most women were horrified that it was written by a female. She blew our minds with her sarcasm and devil may care attitude and won the Booker Prize in 2002
But before Arundhati, there had been other women who blew the mind of conservative India- be they scathing columnists like Shobha De or actors like Deepti Bhatnagar doing daring roles in a movie like Mandi, or dancers like Protima Bedi who streaked naked on a Mumbai beach just to make a point that she didn't give a fuck about conservatives.
Why is it considered to be loose behavior on the part of a woman if she discusses sexual matters openly? Worse still, why is a woman called a whore if she writes about explicit sex? Stephen King isn't some psychopath just because he wrote numerous books about blood, gore and gruesome death. What a writer writes does not necessarily reflect his life, right?
Tamtekin is unbowed and is furious about the hypocrisy. "It's not as if no one has sex in Turkey. Of course women have sexually active lives, but they always make sure that no one hears about them. Women aren't able to stand out as individuals and talk openly about sex or fancying men," she says.
Even today, how many women in India fearlessly address sexual matters? How many Desi women's blogs exist that talk about adult issues? Why the need for pseudonyms? Why are we so scared of society's or even our own family's' backlash?
Protecting the right to freedom of speech, the right to individual choice, whether in sexual matters or conception, are hallmarks of feminism. And yet many of us, despite calling ourselves feminists, cringe from addressing these issues or consider those who protest to be foolhardy.
Till we women don't deliberately grab the tiger by the tail like Selin did and show our middle finger to the patriarchal system we will remain slaves despite all the outward appearances of freedom enjoyed .
Turkish Writer, Selin Tamtekin, Faces Criticism For Writing Diplomat's Daughter
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temporal
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November 6, 2007
10:51 AM
dee:
Why is it considered to be loose behavior on the part of a woman if she discusses sexual matters openly? Worse still, why is a woman called a whore if she writes about explicit sex? Stephen King isn't some psychopath just because he wrote numerous books about blood, gore and gruesome death. What a writer writes does not necessarily reflect his life, right?
very well said!
even given the largely conservative strain in our societies the still slumbering attitudes are difficult to digest
and the dichotomy becomes all the more apparent
one standard for you, one for me!
Deepti Lamba
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November 6, 2007
01:00 PM
t, there will always be people living in Sesame street dreaming about burning others on pyres;)
temporal
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November 6, 2007
11:03 PM
just wondering
if the women writers are labeled whores
how about gigolo for men?
;)
Deepti Lamba
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November 7, 2007
03:22 AM
Lol, to be a gigolo one has to be suave - women are very choosy;)
smallsquirrel
November 7, 2007
03:33 AM
nooooooooooo Dee... to be a gigolo, one must just have an inflated sense of ego. haven't you noticed that most of those men are not adored by women but by other men for their made-up stories? women are not taken in by those greased-up, bloated, hairy-chested troglodytes. but they sure make good fiction! LOL
(this is, however, not aimed at male writers)
Jawahara
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November 7, 2007
03:55 AM
The history of women (especially in India) writing frankly sexual material predates Arundhati Roy by decades. There was Kamala Das who wrote My Story, which was actually a frank memoir of her own sexual history. Then, of course, Urdu writers like Ismat Chughtai ( 'Lihaf,') and Wajida Tabbassum ('Utran'). In fact Chughtai was actually brought to court on obscenity charges in 1944 and was part of the Progressive Writers Movement. I am sure there were other writers in the Indian vernacular languages with whom I am not familiar.
But then only women have not been brought up on obscenity charges. Manto was also part of the 1944 obscenity trial in India. D.H. Lawrence had caused an uproar in 1928 with its frank sexuality and the use of then banned obscene words. In fact, as recently as 1960 there was an obscenity trial in England against Penguin who published Lady Chatterly's Lover.
Then, of course, as far as women go, there was Anais Nin, who famously wrote porn (or erotica, depending on who defines it) for a dollar a page for a wealthy patron.
The point is that whenever anything controvorsial, sexual or not, is written, people go crazy. Anything that upsets a paradigm (women, Indian women or Muslim women are meek, shy, sexually retiring creatures) is bound to create an uproar. And you go after it with the only weapon (usually the most base) to attack with.
With Rushdie it was a death sentence. With women it's calling them sluts and whores.
Deepti Lamba
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November 7, 2007
05:03 AM
And despite all this persecution writers continue write stuff that would only make matters worse for themselves. Has anything really changed since then?
Jawahara
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November 7, 2007
07:32 AM
For me personally, I think writers and artists are supposed to push against the boundaries of their worlds. They *should* challenge the prevailing norms. Not in a deliberate, baiting manner but...sometimes something a writer or an artist naturally produces strikes a discordant note, rubs against the society of which they are a part, or against the world...and something great happens.
Otherwise they churn out the same old stuff. Then, to me, they are hacks and not writers. There are writers, of course, who manufacture controvorsy for the sake of it. Dan Brown anyone? Now he is definitely not a great writer but he touched something off. And before he came around there was the well-written 'The Last Temptation of Christ,' by Nikos Kazantakis.
I find it amusing that each time a writer (or an artist) is villified the reacion is always of shock. There is nothing new in this. Artists have created and writers have written and society has reacted.
Perhaps when sex is no longer taboo and heresy no longer news-making, that will be old hat and writers will find something else to come up against. Perhaps they will write something about chastity and godliness.
To me, this friction (creative, not manufactured) in the hands of a true writer is one of the wonderful things that make me aspire to be a writer. To challenge, to mock, to be (to use one of my favorite words) be blasphemous are the gifts that writers give to the world.
It is the job of society to tug things towards the middle. And it is the job of writers to challenge society. It is through this continuous tug of war that we continue to evolve, and develop towards the center, which is held together with the forces of tension around it.
Personally, I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing. It makes people think. Even when society opposes something it makes people think about the concept being written about. It broadens our horizons.
Society gradually absorbs those very things it villifies. So while Plato and Aristotle were heretic troublemakers in their time, they form the basis of Western society. These controvorsies then are still being played out, and are just a blip in time.
smallsquirrel
November 7, 2007
07:38 AM
jawahara... very interesting points you have raised about literature and writers. nice to get a peek into a writer's mind once in a while. although I am not sure all writers believe it is their job to challenge society. some just write to exercise their demons or chronicle something or the other. everyone has a different purpose. but the way you see it certainly is one that gives a lot of purpose and meaning.
Jawahara
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November 7, 2007
08:46 AM
Let me clarify: I don't necessarily think that writers and/or artists should deliberately bait society. This is why I made the distinction between the manufactured and the creative.
A manufactured controvorsy would be something written by a mediocre (or worse) writer to deliberately court controvorsy.
A creative one is a happy accident, where a good (or great) writer writes something for him or herself, and that natural creative evolution touches off a spark.
So, while I don't think writers should write to teach/bait/fight societal problems, etc. the great ones do end up doing that just by creating a story and writing it so well that it makes us think.
Phew!
smallsquirrel
November 7, 2007
08:51 AM
OK, got it.
"the great ones do end up doing that just by creating a story and writing it so well that it makes us think."
and totally agree!
Deepti Lamba
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November 7, 2007
09:14 AM
So basically good writers are fearless in their creativity.
Jawahara
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November 7, 2007
10:07 AM
To me, yes, Dee. But I guess we all differ on whom we consider good writers :-).
temporal
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November 7, 2007
10:19 AM
jay:
reading through the comments i picked this to comment on:
It is the job of society to tug things towards the middle. And it is the job of writers to challenge society. It is through this continuous tug of war that we continue to evolve, and develop towards the center, which is held together with the forces of tension around it.
:)
and was merrily churning my response when i read further down this:
I don't necessarily think that writers and/or artists should deliberately bait society. This is why I made the distinction between the manufactured and the creative.
So, while I don't think writers should write to teach/bait/fight societal problems, etc. the great ones do end up doing that just by creating a story and writing it so well that it makes us think.
hmmmmmmm
am not sure, but we have crossed swords over this somewhere before
i think it may have been in context of taraqqi-pasand adab movement of 1935 (progressive writers' movement)led by sajjad zaheer, prem chand, faiz, etc.
briefly, they made literature subservient to 'goals' however laudable
there were many writers that held that creative writing should not be held accountable to 'goals' but to 'whims'
a creative writer should be able to create freely
:)
unhindered, in this free floating subjectivity a wordsmith's objectivity sometimes shines more brilliantly
temporal
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November 7, 2007
10:30 AM
dee:
So basically good writers are fearless in their creativity.
hmmmmmmmm
maybe yes, maybe no
depends on how far we can agree to stretch fearless
yes, we are talking about creative writers!...
well, tell me -- this fearlessness is expressed at or against whom?
and if there is a line - where is it drawn?
let me give my take - one can not be entirely free ...and of course i am stretching 'free':)
--a writer needs pen and paper (keyboard and pc)!
--a writer needs words
--a writer needs readers
--a writer needs reaction
free the writer from these basic needs and what does s/he end up as?
in a great big vacuum
(and i did not bring in censorship, govt. overlording, society and its tolerance level yet)
***
there are constraints on the utopian freedom that every writer knowingly accepts and plods on
some chose to push the envelope farther in their endeavors some decide not to
temporal
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November 7, 2007
10:30 AM
dee:
So basically good writers are fearless in their creativity.
hmmmmmmmm
maybe yes, maybe no
depends on how far we can agree to stretch fearless
yes, we are talking about creative writers!...
well, tell me -- this fearlessness is expressed at or against whom?
and if there is a line - where is it drawn?
let me give my take - one can not be entirely free ...and of course i am stretching 'free':)
--a writer needs pen and paper (keyboard and pc)!
--a writer needs words
--a writer needs readers
--a writer needs reaction
free the writer from these basic needs and what does s/he end up as?
in a great big vacuum
(and i did not bring in censorship, govt. overlording, society and its tolerance level yet)
***
there are constraints on the utopian freedom that every writer knowingly accepts and plods on
some chose to push the envelope farther in their endeavors some decide not to
Deepti Lamba
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November 7, 2007
10:50 AM
T, generally those who do push the envelope are remembered but some like J.K Rowlin do it after they have made their money;)
Jawahara
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November 7, 2007
10:55 AM
T, as a writer (even a hack such as I) I don't feel a responsibility to anyone than myself and to nothing. Sorry, that's just me. I am a purist when it comes to writing. When writers write with an agenda they most often create something preachy and/or self-consciously unreal.
"unhindered, in this free floating subjectivity a wordsmith's objectivity sometimes shines more brilliantly"
Not sure I understood this :-) T. Again I must disagree. Journalists are supposed to be objective. Writers have a point of view and should have that point of view no matter how out there or aberrant it is.
As far as how far can one go? I would say as far as you can imagine, and further. But that's just me.
temporal
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November 7, 2007
11:07 AM
jay:
what did i mean? same as you summed in one word "purist"
sorry for being convoluted:)
think am one too ... though i may be stretching it by remaining under the radar;)
Jawahara
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November 8, 2007
03:20 PM
T, sometimes you are too convoluted (ghuma phira ke baat karna) for my poor little pedestrian brain.
temporal
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November 8, 2007
03:55 PM
j:
monotony can become monotonous
simplicity can become mundane
spice can lose its spice-ness
convolution can creep up
with sleep deprivation, not intent
;)
Bhaskar
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November 12, 2007
12:58 PM
This is a bit off-topic, but there is a case for conservativism. Keep questioning the world, and its values, and pretty soon you end up in nihilistic hell. "Modernism" has killed god and already created this hell for those who embrace it totally. Most modern writers and artists already suffer from this disease, as is evident from their literature.. Look at their faces, and you don't see them smiling.
It is very easy to scoff at the world and its values like arundhati does. Change, especially societal change is a gradual process, and needs to be done with love and compassion. If you want to cause a revolution be prepared for the consequences...a journey into nihilistic hell!!!
Deepti Lamba
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November 12, 2007
11:40 PM
What makes you so sure we aren't living in one already?
temporal
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November 13, 2007
08:43 AM
beady:
It is very easy to scoff at the world and its values like arundhati does.
she does?
this is news!
what i read from her is her passionate and articulate views on SOME issues IN our world. (whether we agree or disagree is secondary.)
Deepti Lamba
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November 13, 2007
09:44 AM
Don't think this our beady or are there two of them?
temporal
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November 13, 2007
09:49 AM
apologise!
pls. read "Bhaskar" in #24
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